A Little Perspective

I find it easy to get bogged down in every day worries. Especially as a mother.

The news is full of violent flu epidemics, sweeping the nation. During winter every cough or fever can be an anxiety ridden train that it’s hard to jump off of. But a little perspective can do a world of good.

My kids both have colds. They started with fevers which always make me nervous. My husband I put them to bed last night, and I sat on the couch as waves of worry rolled over me. I’m not naturally a nervous person, so this feeling makes me…more anxious. And then I saw on clip on TV that changed my whole night.

The Amazing Race went to Singapore, and contestants were ferried along on tut-tuts through the busy streets. The camera zoomed in a lone figure; a toddler, younger then mine, was sitting alone in a bustling street, his parents no where to be found. He was wearing little clothing and was covered in dirt. He just sat there, as vehicles sped by, watching life move quickly around him.

And it hit me:

I am so lucky.

My children, though sick, are tucked safely into bed, fully clothed and cared for. God forbid their fever worsens or they break their arms or sprain an ankles trying to fly like a fairies from the kitchen table, we have medical care at our finger tips. Their pajamas are soft and lined with fleece, covered in animals. They are surrounded by stuffed toys given to them by loving friends and family. Their house is warm and their bellies are full.

It is so easy to lose perspective on the lives we live; on the fortune we possess and the opportunities that await us. Taking a moment to gain a little perspective not only can relieve anxiety, but make one thankful for all of the bounty that surrounds them.

I went and kissed my two snotty monsters, thankful and appreciative.